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Tending a Marriage with Prayer
We are humbled that God takes time to listen to us. We were married 35 years before starting to pray together like this.
Sep 28, 2020


The Story We Tell Ourselves
To ensure we are living accurate narratives, we need people with whom we can be open about the stories we tell ourselves.
Sep 18, 2020


Reframing Midlife Marriage
Our crisis revealed itself as an opportunity to evaluate our lives and make significant changes. ... We worked hard for our marriage.
Sep 15, 2020


Unlonely
Recently I've started noticing just how very many souls around me express a vacant, hollow loneliness. And not just due to COVID-19.
Sep 8, 2020


Untangling the Past
I feared unraveling the threads of my past and exposing myself to the pain and heartache I'd spent much of my life working to overcome.
Sep 1, 2020


Facts versus Feelings
Feelings are always real in the sense that they exist. But sometimes they are just feelings, not truth.
Aug 25, 2020


God Willing
This year, this pandemic year, has sent my well-wrought plans (and yours too, I'm quite sure) careening off the rails.
Aug 18, 2020


For Today
There are days when my heart can't find the momentum to write. Or speak. Or think much really. Like today.
Aug 11, 2020


The Only Way Through Is Together
I found myself fighting the urge to withdraw and become invulnerable in the relationship and conversation by pretending and performing.
Aug 4, 2020


Grace in Social Media
Learning to show grace in social media is a process, often one of responding more slowly and thoughtfully, and showing restraint.
Jul 28, 2020


Let's Talk About Grief
I know we're being brave and showing up and soldiering on. But it's okay to grieve, too. We don't have to pretend we're not sad.
Jul 21, 2020


Called: To and From
We are familiar with the call to and we scurry to respond. But a call to Jesus is a from something else.
Jul 13, 2020


Finding Our Place
I fretted about going into the party. Part of my hesitancy was rooted in my journey to find confidence as God's beloved.
Jul 7, 2020


True Listening
In between all the doing and responding, are we overlooking the one true catalyst of change? Are we taking time to listen to one another?
Jun 30, 2020


The God Who Sees
In the midst of the exclusion of not fitting in, it can be easy for me to feel invisible. I find solace and comfort in Hagar's story.
Jun 23, 2020


Lessons From My Left Hand
Using my left hand instead of my preferred right feels awkward and unfamiliar. What might I learn from this experience?
Jun 16, 2020


Truly Seeing
Colorblind assumes everyone is the same, which is different than treating everyone as equals. We are not the same, we are ethnic beings.
Jun 8, 2020


What Next
To my surprise ... relief didn't look like I thought it would. It came when I quit being a slave to shame and forgave myself.
Jun 2, 2020


When I'm In Pain
God has wrapped me in peace while carrying me through seasons of suffering. He has never minimized or dismissed my concerns.
May 26, 2020


How to Have Your Deepest Cravings Satisfied by God
When we gather to eat, I believe God wants to feed more than our appetites, he wants to feed our souls.
May 18, 2020

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